Here you are…Looking for couples counseling…
Scanning and searching, perhaps page after page for the right place and the right person. Your hope is that someone can help you put the pieces together from what seems broken, to find what has been lost, to rekindle the flames of passion and desire.
You’re not sure how you wound up here.
The laughing and smiles have become a rare occasion. As a couple, you find yourself spending less time together engaged in conversation and shared activities. You may be in the same room but spend more time looking at a screen and scrolling through other people’s highlight reel of life…pictures of vacations and shared adventures, time with kids, and their significant other. You find yourself desiring the life you dreamed you’d have and wondering if there is any hope left.
Time feels like it is running out…
It’s terrifying and heartbreaking to think this might be the end.
You’re not sure when it began. Maybe it was after the kids were born, or maybe it’s just the realization you might not be as compatible as you always thought. Either way, there is a distance and disconnect between the two of you that can no longer be ignored.
Often you feel lost and perhaps unknown, desperately longing to be seen, heard, and understood. You’ve become little more than roommates, but you want so much more.
You want to feel like you did in the beginning
Back before things got derailed and off track. You want to feel like true partners again. You want to speak and be heard and understood.
This may be your story, one filled with chapters of confusion, disconnection, pain, and loss…but there are still more chapters to be written.
I can help you.
I walk with people, like you, through the fog and confusion, resurrecting what was thought to be lost.
I do this with compassion and understanding using evidence-based approaches and interventions
(Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman Method), which I have spent years through advanced study and practice applying.
My primary focus is on relationships and understanding the systems that help them flourish and those that suffocate and destroy them.
This is important for you to know you because not all therapists have the training or skill to truly work confidently with couples in distress.
I will work with you to create a path out of the darkness and back into the light.
I make therapy convenient and easy with evening and weekend availability to fit your busy life. Clients who work with me appreciate my straightforward and down-to-earth approach.
This is a place to begin again…
The REtherapyCenter is a place to REThink therapy and its possibilities in your life. It’s a place to Renew, Reconnect, and Redeem what has been lost…in some cases it’s about the Rebirth of an individual, couple, or family.