At first, you couldn’t get enough.
When it all started, you couldn’t keep your hands off each other.
When apart, you counted the minutes until you could be together again – an irresistible hunger from that initial spark created passion, the electric energy between you.
It was exquisite. Sex was consistent and anything but bland. You had found the perfect match in each other.
Desire, spontaneity, passion, excitement, anticipation, synchronicity…
You read each other effortlessly. And the results? Spectacular!
So, what happened?
Now, years into your relationship, you can count on one hand the times you’ve had sex. Intimacy has become a rare event.
For a while, you were the one initiating intimacy. And after being turned down or outright rejected so many times, you’ve finally given up. It became too painful – a minefield of emotional destruction.
Maybe there were a few times that performance was an issue. (Why aren’t things working as they used to?) It’s a vicious cycle: They feel pressured to perform, and you feel the sting of rejection.
Or you were out of sync – never interested at the same time.
Whatever it was, you stopped talking about it…
… usually because it resulted in an eruptive fight that only increased the distance between you.
In the silence, anger and resentment crept in, making you feel more isolated and your partner more ashamed for not showing up as needed.
Strangely enough, you both agree that sex and intimacy are important to the relationship. You both want more – more connection and closeness – and you want it to be better.
So, why can’t you get there?
It feels like you’ve tried everything.
You looked up different strategies online, but they typically preached the same tired lines.
Date nights: Of course, you’ve done that.
Scheduled sex: Neither of you wanted that. Goodbye, fun and spontaneity.
Role-playing: Would they even imagine going there with you? At this point, it would seem forced and awkward.
Where is the GOOD advice?!
So, here you are. Both of you are frustrated, want the same thing, and struggle to understand what is getting in the way.
You decide to give sex therapy a try.
You’re both nervous about talking to a stranger about this intimate problem, but you immediately feel tremendous relief in finally getting it out there and discovering that…
This is a common, normal situation for most couples.
At last, you realize you don’t need to feel ashamed about sex.
More importantly, you find hope.
There is a solution to this issue, and you can find your way back to each other again.
Weekly therapy sessions teach you more than you ever thought possible.
Why doesn’t anybody else ever talk about sex like this?!
You realize that the information and messaging you’ve gotten from everywhere else have been entirely misleading.
New ways of thinking and approaching this area of life are presented to you.
You begin to experience a new freedom.
Knowledgeable, empowered, and stronger, you report improved self-esteem and a significant positive impact on your sex life as a couple.
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Regardless of your experience level, you deserve and can have the sex life you desire.
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